The Young People Who Didn’t Fail – And the System That Keeps Pretending They Did

Every few years, the government announces it is “reviewing the NEET problem.” You can almost hear the sigh ripple across the country when they do. We’ve been here before. We know how this goes.

The same headlines. The same concern. The same promises that this time, finally, something will change.

But anyone who has lived through the last twenty years knows the truth:

The NEET problem was never solved because it was never understood.

The system keeps circling the same question – “Why aren’t young people engaging?” – without ever asking the one that matters:

“What exactly are we asking them to engage with?”

Because if you’re sixteen, or nineteen, or twenty‑three, and you’re looking at the world you’re about to inherit, the picture doesn’t look like opportunity. It looks like a maze with no exit.

And that’s where the story really begins.

The young people who “did everything right”

You meet them everywhere.

There’s the girl who worked hard at school, got the grades, went to college, took on debt, earned the qualification – and now works two part‑time jobs that don’t cover rent. She did everything the system asked of her, and the system shrugged, as if her effort were a footnote.

There’s the boy who was brilliant with his hands, who could fix anything, who learned by doing – but was told that “real success” only comes through exams, essays, and university. He didn’t fall behind because he lacked ability. He fell behind because the system only recognises one kind of intelligence.

And there’s the teenager who tries to revise in a house where the electricity meter runs out, or where caring for siblings matters more than coursework, or where anxiety makes concentration impossible – and is told they “lack motivation.”

None of these young people failed. They were simply born into a system that cannot see them.

And when a system can’t see young people clearly, it reaches for the same old stories to explain away its failures.

The myth that keeps hurting them

Whenever the NEET numbers rise, someone in government inevitably points to a politician who “made it” despite hardship – a story meant to prove that social mobility works.

But these stories often leave out the quiet truths: the family connections, the cultural confidence, the safety nets, the invisible advantages that smoothed the path long before talent or effort had a chance to show themselves.

It’s not that these individuals didn’t work hard. It’s that their success came from a mixture of background and opportunity that most young people today simply don’t have.

And yet the system uses these stories as proof that young people who struggle must be doing something wrong.

It’s a painful irony:

The people who benefited from background‑based mobility are held up as evidence that meritocracy works – as if their story proves the system is fair, rather than proving how uneven it really is.

Meanwhile, the young people with real merit are being shut out.

The world young people are entering is not the world politicians grew up in

This is the part the NEET reviews never acknowledge.

Today’s young people are stepping into an economy where wages don’t meet living costs, a housing market that has quietly closed its doors to them, and a job market shrinking under automation.

They’re navigating an education system commercialised beyond recognition and a society where mental‑health pressures are constant. Even degrees – once the golden ticket – no longer guarantee stability.

They are not disengaging because they don’t care. They are disengaging because the pathways they were promised no longer exist.

And when the system responds with yet another “training scheme,” it feels less like help and more like blame – as if the problem is their attitude, not the architecture around them.

The mental‑health crisis is not a youth crisis – it’s a system crisis

Spend time with young people and you’ll see it.

The quiet panic before opening a bank app. The dread of another rejection email. The feeling of being told “you can be anything” while knowing you can barely afford to be something.

The anxiety that comes from trying to meet expectations that no longer match reality. The depression that comes from believing you’ve failed when you’ve done everything you were told to do. The hopelessness that comes from watching adults insist the system works when your lived experience tells you it doesn’t.

Young people aren’t fragile. They’re perceptive.

They’re simply the first generation to grow up entirely inside a system that has already stopped working – and the only generation being told it’s their fault.

So what do we do?

First, we stop pretending the old model can be patched. We stop pretending that more qualifications will fix a job market that’s disappearing, or that more training will fix an economy that cannot absorb the people it already has.

Most of all, we stop pretending that young people are the problem. They’re not. They never were.

If the old model can’t be patched, then we need a new one – not a slogan, not a scheme, but a framework that values people for what they can contribute, not for how well they fit a broken design.

A framework where experiential learners thrive, practical learners thrive, relational learners thrive, environmentally pressured learners are supported, and academically strong learners still have pathways. A framework where dignity is guaranteed, contribution is recognised, community is rebuilt, and opportunity is real.

A framework where young people aren’t blamed for structural collapse – they’re empowered to help rebuild what comes next.

That’s the promise of contribution culture. That’s the promise of a system built around capability, dignity, locality, and community. That’s the promise of LEGS – not as ideology, but as architecture.

Young people haven’t failed. The system has failed them. And the sooner we stop pretending otherwise, the sooner we can start building something that finally works – for them, and for all of us.

Why Young People and Smartphones Are Not the Problem

When The Times reported this week that a government‑commissioned review had concluded smartphones are a major cause of the rise in young people who are NEET*, it was hard not to feel the weight of a familiar story settling over us again.

A new generation is struggling. A new report is published. And once again, the blame is placed squarely on the young people themselves.

This time the villain is the smartphone. Before that it was video games. Before that it was “attitude”, “aspiration”, “work ethic”, or whatever behavioural explanation happened to be fashionable at the time.

The pattern never changes. Only the scapegoat does.

And every time, the real causes – the structural, systemic, deeply human causes – are quietly pushed out of sight.

Smartphones are a problem. But they are not the problem. They have reshaped how all of us live, think and relate to the world. They are addictive, distracting, and capable of distorting our sense of reality. But the idea that smartphones are uniquely responsible for young people becoming NEET is not just simplistic – it is a distortion of the truth.

If smartphones were the cause, then why are adults – including those in government, business and media – glued to their screens too? Why are older generations reporting rising anxiety, burnout and disconnection? Why is everyone, across every age group, wrestling with the same digital compulsions?

The answer is obvious: smartphones are not the root cause of youth disengagement. They are the symptom of a society that has stopped giving young people a meaningful place within it.

When the world outside offers no stability, no opportunity, no vocational pathway, no affordable independence and no sense of a future, the digital world becomes the only place where life feels manageable.

Young people are not disappearing into their phones because they are lazy. They are disappearing into their phones because the world we have built for them feels impossible to navigate.

We have been here before. Every decade, a new “lost generation” is discovered. Every decade, politicians and commentators blame that generation for its own circumstances. And every decade, nothing changes.

The truth is that Britain has become a two‑tier society – not between young and old, but between those who benefit from the system and those who are shaped, constrained or crushed by it.

The young people now being blamed for their smartphone use are the same young people who cannot find secure work, cannot afford housing, cannot access vocational routes, cannot rely on public services and cannot see a future that resembles anything stable.

This is not a behavioural crisis. It is a structural one.

Worklessness is not a lifestyle choice. It is a systemic outcome. Young people are not working because there is not enough work that pays enough to live on.

We live in an extractive economic system where wages no longer match living costs, secure jobs have been replaced by precarious ones, housing is unaffordable, public services have collapsed, vocational routes have been dismantled and qualifications have become inflated and meaningless.

In such a system, young people who do not fit the narrow academic mould are not “choosing” to disengage. They are being systematically excluded.

And when they retreat into their phones, it is not because the phone caused the exclusion – it is because the phone is the only place where they feel any agency, connection or escape.

Another convenient narrative is that smartphones are causing a mental health crisis.

But what if the opposite is true?

What if the mental health crisis is caused by insecurity, poverty, unstable housing, collapsing public services, academic pressure, social isolation, the disappearance of community and the loss of vocational identity – and smartphones are simply where young people go to cope with it?

When a young person feels worthless because the system tells them they have no value unless they conform to an academic pathway that was never designed for them, the psychological damage is profound.

Smartphones didn’t create that damage. They just provide a place to hide from it.

One of the most damaging shifts of the past 30 years has been the near‑total collapse of vocational education as a respected, funded and valued pathway. Children are heads or hands – and both are equally valuable. But the system only rewards the “heads”. Everyone else is told they are a failure. We have created a society where practical skills are devalued, vocational learners are sidelined, experience is dismissed, qualifications are worshipped, conformity is rewarded and individuality is punished.

And then we wonder why young people disengage.

And even where something resembling a vocational route still exists, it has been hollowed out. The modern “apprenticeship” bears almost no resemblance to the traditional, deeply skilled, indentured pathway that once turned young people with no advantage into confident, capable adults.

Today’s apprenticeships are shorter, thinner, and often little more than rebadged entry‑level jobs. Worse still, they have become a refuge for academically strong young people who no longer want – or can no longer afford – to take on explosive levels of tuition‑fee debt.

It is entirely rational for them to choose a paid apprenticeship over a lifetime of repayments. But the result is that the very people apprenticeships were originally designed to lift up are now being pushed aside by those who already had other options.

Another ladder pulled up. Another route closed. Another group of young people quietly written off by a system that insists the problem lies with them.

Instead of rebuilding vocational routes, we blame smartphones.

Blaming young people costs nothing. It requires no reform. It avoids confronting inequality. It protects the system. It wins headlines. It shifts responsibility away from government.

It is a political strategy, not an analysis. Smartphones are the perfect scapegoat because they are visible, addictive and easy to moralise about. But they are not the cause of youth worklessness any more than television caused unemployment in the 1980s.

The real scandal is that we are abandoning young people – and then blaming them for the consequences.

We have created a society where young people cannot afford independence, cannot find stable work, cannot access vocational routes, cannot rely on public services and cannot see a future. Then we blame them for retreating into the only world where they feel any control.

This is not just wrong. It is cruel. And it is cowardly.

Young people are not failing. We are failing them.

Until we confront the structural causes – inequality, extraction, qualification tyranny, the collapse of vocational pathways and the destruction of community – we will keep producing “left behind” generations. And every time, we will find a new scapegoat to avoid admitting the truth.

Those who believe the current system benefits them will continue to resist change. But the cost of that resistance is measured in human lives – young and old – who are pushed to the margins and then blamed for the suffering that the system itself has created.

Blaming the people the system has passed by is not just a policy failure. It is an act of inhumanity.

A society that values everyone equally – whether academic or vocational, young or old – cannot be built on blame. It can only be built on systemic change.

And until we choose that change, we will continue to abandon people – and then punish them for being abandoned.

* NEET: A government classification for young people aged 16–24 who are Not in Education, Employment or Training. It is a cold administrative label for a deeply human situation – young people who have fallen out of the system, or been pushed out of it, and are now navigating life without the structure, support or opportunity most of us take for granted.